Gratitude in Times of Doubt

This “Blogamonth” series is one I participated in a few years ago, and have been drawn to return to the PLN for coaching, inspiration, and light as I have seemed to enter a bit of a professional mid-life crisis this past year, uncertain how I’m to navigate the remaining years of my professional career, uncertain what there is for me beyond the trenches.  Consider joining us on the journey where “a diverse #PLN of teachers, administrators, coaches … connect to provide each member with some “edu-couragement”  to write a blog and comment on a blog at least once a month.” Join us here:  http://blogamonth.weebly.com/monthly-topics/september-blogamonth-prompt

SEPTEMBER TOPIC: A new beginning: One thing that is different from a year ago that I am grateful for…

Every year I get to fall in love.  Every year I have to say good-bye. Yet, after 20 years it is never easy to say goodbye to the kids you fell in love with.  It is a heartache that begins the second I start to fall in love and as time rushes us towards our farewells I get quieter, wishing for the days to slow down,  saddened that my birds are flying away.   Yet, proud too.  The love is constant, and the goodbyes are constant too.  Nothing different year to year.   And I am so grateful for it all, as always, even though it hurts.

So, when asked what is “different from a year ago that I am grateful for…” I have pondered and perplexed over this prompt.  Initially, I felt that nothing is new – just same old, same old.  In fact,  I am frustrated by the redundancy of my career.  I’ve been hungry for a change into a leadership position  – in administration, in curriculum design, in being a learning leader, a specialist, etc… – but there is nothing available in our organization for the likes of me.  I hunger for inspiration to aspire to something different, but something that still allows me to love, of course!

I’m trapped in a “now what?” existence. But in this limbo, I am graced with the beautiful paradox of falling in love again while achingly regretting the pending goodbyes.  I’m grateful for my students – all 78 of them whom I teach this semester.  Seriously, 3 classes of gorgeous children – I’m madly in love!  I’m not in anything I really want to get out of, yet I do want a change.  Thus the dilemma. Thus my mid-life professional crisis.  Am I grateful for a dilemma?  Not really, but yes.  It makes me appreciate every moment of class with them – even some of the marking.  Furthermore, what is uniquely special this year is that so many of these students have been with me since Grade 10 between Creative Writing, Drama 20 and AP class – 3 years of love makes the goodbyes so much more painful.  And I’m as sad as I am intoxicated with awe by their brilliance – especially my AP students where I get to learn alongside them.  I’m humbly grateful!

What is different with this group is the depth of love.  What I’m grateful for is them!  I’m grateful that I have this year with this group of 12s before they are gone.  In truth, I am the learner and they often are teaching me. What I’m afraid of is what is left of me, for me, when we say goodbye?  Yes, I can (and will) recycle again, as I have for the last 20 years, yet this would be the group that would be a high to close the finale curtain with.  But I am nowhere near retirement.  And I cannot seem to find contentment with sailing this sunset to the horizon, for my sails are tired and worn.  Sailing is not my interest – I love the battle of learning and want to find my own balance from weariness while being inspired to grow and adapt.  I’m certainly not bored, in fact, I’m overwhelmed in the to-do piles, especially of the marking kind – teaching English is a lifestyle, not a job.  “Get your master’s,” they say.  I’m just trying to get some sleep – let alone a master’s.

It is one of the benefits of teaching – we get to hit the reset button each year.  Only I’d like the reset button to be starting something new.  For now, I am grateful for being in love, while mourning our painfully pending goodbyes.

ILAG – Infinite Love and Gratitude!

Please check out my classes’ writing on our blogs:

• AP English – http://aphunniblog.edublogs.org/ 
• Grade 12 (30-2) – http://hunniblog30two.edublogs.org/ 
• Creative Writing  – http://hunniwriters7.edublogs.org/ – (each student has their own blog – see top right corner where their September assignment was to build their blog and write an ABOUT ME).

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AP Grade 12 Ted Talks

As our year winds to a close, our Grade 12’s share their wisdom and experience with our AP kids and friends via a Ted Talks style 5-15 minute speech.  The students’ truth and wisdom brought us all to tears for well over two hours.  Here are the highlights as shared with us by Jade’s great note-taking.

Highlights from grade twelve Ted Talks: 

Claire, on “Why I am Funny” 

• -“If I’m funny, they’ll have to keep me around, right?” 
• -insightfully describes humour as a source of validation, inspiration and perhaps even a coping mechanism 
• -a wonderful speech about finding and establishing a sense of belonging and a safe, comfortable space 
• -exploration of the idea that funny=likability=happiness 
• -relatable–we are all looking for validation, for something to cling to, how we have a tendency to compare ourselves to other when we don’t feel like we are good enough 
• -a funny, heartwarming story about finding and knowing our own worth–reaching our full potentials–how sometimes it’s a matter of patience 
• -surrounding ourselves with humble, caring people who advocate for our success 
• -taking chances, trying new things in order to find a place where we are passionate, where we feel safe, and where we feel like we belong 

 

Emily on “Dear Someone, from a child of divorce” 

• -we all love people differently 
• -spoken word style–LOVE 
• -“matrimony, like bones and roses and poetry is fragile” 
• -“it breaks the bonds, love and lovers” 
• -fear of loving, of giving others too much of ourselves, fear of sacrificing dreams and hopes in the name of love 
• -“I will likely take more than I can give” 
• -“married, mothered, and monstrous” 
• -“my hair, my sheets and clothes all smell like you” 
• -how our upbringings predispose us to loving a certain way 
• -how do we love selflessly without losing/destroying ourselves in the midst of doing so 
• – dear, someone–word someone makes it applicable and relatable to anyone. 
• -BRAVO! 

Harmehar on “the harm of minimizing your self-worth” 

• -a universal suffering we have all experienced 
• -why do we find confidence intimidating? 
• -some of the most confident people have also felt the most insecure 
• -who do we surround ourselves with?–we need to find people who love us unconditionally, those who are accepting of us, flaws and differences 
• -don’t surround yourselves with people who are afraid to see you succeed!–cut them out of your life. 
• -knowing what makes you happy and practicing those things; hobbies etc 
• -sometimes where you feel you are supposed to be isn’t contributing to your own growth, development, and positive sense of self worth 
• -self fulfilling prophecies 
• -“realizing the potential that surrounds you”–never accept less than you deserve, do not short change yourself 
• -we all deserve to feel good about ourselves 

Bryna on “finding your true path” 

• -overriding convention of society 
• -Tumblr and spiritual awakenings—LOVE it 
• -from catholic to pagan 
• to look up and realize my spirituality is Apollo and his mates shining down on me
• -finding our own connections and passions–not letting others choose it for us 
• -anti-conformity 
• -“when one god comes in your life, more are sure to follow”  – each to teach us their lessons
• -wonder, confidence, pride 
• -“Apollo told me to never let go of my morals” 
• -“Hermes is my closest companion” 

Sadia – the validation of one’s self

• -the relationship you should value most is the one with yourself 
• -the only validation that can satisfy you is the validation that comes from yourself 
• -“if you make a mistake don’t lament…”–they aren’t meant to be a deterrent 
• -“keep your humanity close to you.” 
• -“don’t silence compassionate thoughts” 
• -don’t let others decide your worth–only you, as an individual can do that 
• -“our world is not without magic” 
• -“become aware of the power and influence your mind is capable of” 

Timi on “imperfections and the pursuit of happiness” 

• – beautiful, biographic story 
• -we are all born with an inclination to love ourselves–with child-like wonder, something that often begins to deteriorates as we grow older 
• – “body image became a must pay attention to” 
• -“In a few months I went from being the most confident to the most self conscious” 
• -“I looked for love in the wrong places” 
• -our trials, imperfections and flaws are contributors to our strength and happiness 
• – abuse
• -“we all want to be somebody.” 
• -embracing imperfections 
• -“know the difference between and imperfection and a liability” 

Sania on “Islam is beautiful” 

• – stereotypes vs reality 
• – harm of stereotypes 
• – peace, love, dignity, respect, a source of comfort in times of despair 
• – my world of Islam was peace, beauty, and love
• -“so remember me I will remember you” 
• -“and he is with you wherever you are” 
• -open, trusting, reliable community 
• -“it felt like everyone is Saudi Arabia was one person”–unity 
• -the fatal generalizations and incorrect assumptions made about Islam: comes from a place of fear, ignorance
• -“every nation has seeds of corruption” 
• -“fear reveals what we care about most” 
• -“all the hardest, coldest people you meet were once as soft as water. And that is the tragedy of living” ~ Iain Thomas 
• -“Islam is good” 

Sajan on “grade thirteen” 

• -serendipity 
• -the significance of second chances 
• -self discovery 
• -“I provided the spotlight for other people but I never gave it to myself” 
• -it’s okay to ask for help when we don’t know how to help ourselves 
• -heartache–muse, inspirational 
• – finding home 
• -“it’s never too late to get your *@!$ together” 
• -the perils of sleep walking through life–find yourself instead 

Malika on “learning to let go while continuing to love on” 

• -“I can’t leave you, my heart screams…but I have to” 
• -“goodbyes remind us that we are human and that everything must come to an end” 
• -“maybe the key to letting go is accepting the fact that forever doesn’t exist” 
• -“love has no sense of time nor placement” 
• -“love is a promise to never forget” 
• -letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving 

Coaching Teachers

I have noticed in my 18 years of teaching that we teachers value being heard, validated, and supported, especially in difficult times.  I am often sought as a mentor for many staff with a range of struggles from the classroom to personal life.  The intense demands of teaching coupled with the inevitability of life cause perpetual challenges that ebb and flow for teachers, so helping them to develop resilience is essential in the process of supporting them.  The experience of being this mentor for many years, with wisdom garnered from my own life and work challenges, gives me a wealth of perspective that I call on to support my colleagues when they need it.  It is the same “ear”, relationship, and caring that I give to my students as the needs arise. Effectively supporting people requires an investment of relationship, trust, communication, responsiveness, follow-up, and validation:

1. Establish Trusting Relationships: I observe people. I listen to people. I take the time to get to know people. Why?  Because I value relationship as a foundation for trust.  Within my classroom, relationship is founded by mining inside the hearts and minds of students through writing, creating, and building community.  With adults, it is getting to know them in meetings, social contexts, community builders, and just being present in their class and observing what interests them by what surrounds them (photos, books, posters, momentos, …).  Having a relationship with staff is essential for being trusted both in good times and when they are in crisis needing the support I can offer.  With this trust, they come to me, and they appreciate my mentorship.
2. Communication and Availability: I’m the mom to many at the school. I keep an open door policy as much as possible and am available to people when they seek my support or guidance. I am present with people and prioritize their well-being. When it is evident that someone needs support, I use my intuitive nature to read body language, tone, and word choice to give me the insight to ask the right questions in order to support them.   I genuinely know that my presence, candor, trust, and caring has made a difference for many, and I take that responsibility seriously.  My strong emotional intelligence and open-minded, non-judgmental attitude really help me be a compassionate listener and a positive influence in helping someone navigate those tough times.
3. Responsiveness and Awareness: In communication, it is important to be responsive and attentive. Constant interruptions are a part of being an AP, but handling them with grace and awareness is essential so staff feel valued and heard. Small graces by putting aside the computer, offering eye contact, and my full attention create a safe space for effective communication to occur, so they know that I care to hear what they have to say, and to find out what they need. I ask: “How can I best help you” or “Who could best help you?”  I break down the upset or crisis into manageable chunks allowing for exploration of the root cause – this strategy alone is highly effective to give clarity and insight.  As leaders it is our responsibility to allow teachers to feel supported and that they can count on us.
4. Follow-up: The key to genuinely supporting teachers is the element of follow-up both in person and virtually. In the follow-up we can train resilience through encouraging positivity, coaching a growth mindset, connecting with their heart, helping them make habits of self-care, and getting them to laugh – yes, laugh! I firmly believe that love, learning, and laughter is the formula to help struggling teachers survive and thrive.  In the follow-up, I coach them towards resilience through accountability.  As we build up their resilience, they increase their capacity and open-mindedness for growth, improvement, and empowerment.
5. Validation and Kindness: The key to helping teachers maintain a resilient state is to offer validation and acts of kindness. This cannot be underestimated as an important strategy to maintain all teachers: a kind word, a handwritten note or email, taking a supervision, or covering a class for a break can go a long way towards coaching self-worth, endurance, and gratitude in staff. Think of our 3:1 ratio rule – teachers, like students, need 3 positive encounters for every 1 negative.  We, as leaders, have the power to be the 3 in a teacher’s world, and these acts foster motivation, respect, and success.

Resources:

• Coaching Teachers: Promoting Changes that Stick – Coursera
• Transformational Leadership
• Simon Sinek – Start with the Why

The This I Believe Blog

For the last few years the first assignment my Grade 12’s write is their This I Believe blog.  This assignment immediately reveals the hearts and minds of my students and helps us to quickly bond as a community of learners, readers and writers.  Often students declare this to be their favourite piece of writing, which is powerful because it is their first – this is a confidence builder.  Confidence is an essential foundation for us to then build their writing skills to improve.  Also, because it taps into their hearts, minds, and spirits – voice emerges quite authentically.

Initially, I discovered this assignment through NPR’s This I Believe, which led me to find the This I Believe website where I borrowed these writing guidelines for the assignment I give to my kids:

• BLOG 1 This I Believe Assignment
• This I Believe Brochure

This year my goal is to get their writing viewed on a global scale – hoping for COMMENTS to be made on their writing from near and far, while helping them to see the relevance of purpose, audience, and digital footprints.  Please consider reading their blogs and, ideally, leaving a comment:

• THE HUNNI BLOG 30-1 – 2016

Last semester I taught AP Language and Composition and we saw quite an interest in our blog-writing with 3800 pageviews from September to January.  This is really remarkable if you consider a traditional English class where usually the only “pageviews” are done by the teacher and the student writer, with maybe one or two others who look over the piece for editing.  Despite all the wonderful writing on this blog – what got the most attention was our This I Believe blogs.  A wonderful friend and former coworker – Ricardo Avelar – who now works in Panama had his Grade 10 IB class read and comment; this international connection really inspired the students to offer their best writing to the blog for the rest of the semester.

• AP HUNNI Blog – 2015 This I Believe blogs

Also, here are links to past years with more inspiring This I Believe blogs:

• The Hunni Blog 30-1 – 2015 with favourites featured here at Storify: This I Believe blogs
• The Hunni Blog 30 (from 2011-2014)

Commenting has been the gem behind this assignment.  The student writers each are assigned one student to read their This I Believe and to then offer comment feedback following my expectations as outlined on my blog post Etiquettes with Blogging, then they can choose their 2nd student to read and offer feedback.  This is when you witness the walls of the classroom literally and figuratively disappear.  See Iffrah’s blog post “Angels are my Best Friends” and the beautiful exchange between Iffrah and Keelee in the comments – here’s a brief excerpt of their exchange (comments can be found after Iffrah’s blog linked above):

Keelee: “…Iffrah, you are a beautiful girl. So quiet but so powerful with your words. This piece gave me a connection to you and it made me feel like I know you. It was also nice for me to know that I am not alone and there are other people that feel this way aswell. I would love for this to help us become closer this year and I feel like we can do that through this type of thing.”

Iffrah: “…I love how you felt so touched by that one line, and the story you had behind it moved me to tears, cause that’s truly beautiful. I really hope we become close with what is left of our high school year. It’s quite amazing how you get to know more about a person through their writing, and the connections that you can make with people is so incredible.”

This I Believe offers students the inspiration and engagement to begin the class as writers, readers, learners and even co-teachers.  By writing about their beliefs, they begin to believe they can be writers, planting the seed towards their success in ELA – this I believe.

 

 

 

 

Blogging Expectations

Blogging Goals: Communication, Trust, Respect, Courtesy, Integrity, Scholarship, Self-Discipline

The blogging experience is, as I’ve said time and time again, an opportunity where the walls of my classroom disappear and the students begin to engage – as both writers and readers – in a medium where they find comfort – the virtual landscape.  However, the ultimate goal is to have students now “see” each other in ways they never saw before – to see each others’ hearts and minds, transferring that understanding, respect, and friendship back into the classroom when our walls surround us once again.  It is builds our community of learners.  It teaches them as much about themselves as it teaches them about each other.  

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Blog Writing Criteria

Ideas:  Writer generates original and compelling ideas with astute opinions; synthesizes complex concepts, and offers keen insights.  

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  Students are given a variety of topics where they are given a range of choice within that topic. Their ideas must be fresh, unique, insightful, and truly theirs because they are engaged in the subject matter.

•  For instance, the This I Believe or Life Philosophies assignment has students express their core beliefs – for each student this is a personal and often transcendent experience.  In response to our textual studies, students have the choice of responding to any aspect of the study that interested them. (Tori’s poetic approach to Night whereas Michael wrote a Critical Analytical Essay).  However, students also have “FREE CHOICE” opportunities where the students can write whatever they choose.
• When a student chooses a poetic mode, I expect them to write about their own poem in prose.

EVIDENCE:  Writer’s choice of supporting evidence and detail is rich and substantive; sources are integrated in a sophisticated manner.

• Blogs are expected to be detailed, fleshed out, explored with depth.  Paragraphing need not be extensive unless they choose to write a CARL (Critical Analytical Response to  Literature).  In fact, with blogging, shorter snappy paragraphs hold the audiences attention better.  Here’s some good advice about When to Make a New Paragraph.
• Students may even bullet their approach – as I am doing here – if relevant.  

STRUCTURE: Writer’s theme/thesis and evidence are structurally presented clearly and artfully, enhancing impact. Piece flows with coherence and unity.   

• The key in any blog structure is that it supports the style of writing the student chooses.  A short story structure needs a beginning, a middle and an end.  An essay has an introduction, a body, and a conclusion.  Recipes are guides, but writers need be chefs and to structure their work with their own style – but still make it taste great!  Here’s solid advice about Organization.

STYLE:  Writer’s stylistic voice is clear. Varied and elegant sentences enhance impact. Rich, effective diction.

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  This criteria is the one where most students begin to flourish in blog writing – thank goodness!  This is where you start to really experiment with diction, figurative language, and all those rhetorical devices and syntax structures you have been taught in class, leading to an emerging voice that is truly yours. Again, Ms. Kathleen Cali offers solid advice here about developing Style in our writing.

GUMPS – Grammar, Usage, Mechanics, Punctuation, and Spelling:  Writing contains very few or no errors. Use of mechanics enhances meaning. Writer “breaks rules” artfully.

• This criteria is the one many students fear because when students are rather GUMPY their writing lacks polish and professionalism, which is an expectation in blog writing, and so the blog can intimidate when students have not learned these skills.  Although we can’t relearn all our GUMPS at once, blog writing can help us pay attention to hone these skills, and writing processes in class can help us learn these skills.  Our work with No Red Ink and/or Bedford Exercises will help train us to be less GUMPY and more professional.  Again the Conventions are discussed by Ms. Cali.

EFFORT and QUALITY:  Generally these are the polishing and formatting techniques connected to the digital medium of blogging.  

• Length: The entry is a thoughtful and relevant in length = 350-1000 words.  A minimum of 350 words is necessary to really establish the writing criteria listed above.  More than a 1000 can lose your blog reader.
• VISUALS offer support and interest. Use your own pictures or visuals that are free for public usage.  If in your google image search you find the perfect visual, then always cite the source in the caption.

• QUOTATION feature offers you a tool to have quotes from your own blog or famous quotes that relate to your blog stand out.  See Jas’ use of it in this This I Believe blog.

• Cites all sources and offers links to sources using embedding connections, as I have done throughout this post. Notice when the colour is different, that is a link to further the information, but can also cite the source of inspiration, etc…  It is also important to cite sources at the end of the blog.  Use Cite This for Me.
• Interesting, captivating, and relevant title. – This I Believe is not as informative as This I Believe: Everlasting Knights, but Move On: Simple, Expressive, and Infinitely Expansive is downright intriguing.
• TAGS – Thoughtful and Relevant – tagging is essential to help readers understand key topics and themes in your blog.  It also organizes the assignments and topics in the TAG CLOUD.  Read about Tags and Categories here.
• CATEGORY Clicked – In our class blogs, each Category is the name of a student.  Think of the class blog as an anthology of writers.  The Category as a students’ name becomes the section where all the students’ writing is stored.  In students’ blogs, categories can be genres: fiction, non-fiction, poems, inspiring randoms, letters, etc…

TIMELINESS:  Meeting due dates.

Entry is on time by 6pm, early on the day due, or earlier = 5/5.  Late within 72 hours is 4/5. Late within 2 weeks is 3/5.  Late within 3 weeks is 2/5.  Late within a month is 1/5.  After a month is 0/5 and will not be assessed..

• Writing in the real world requires deadlines to be respected.  Writing digitally requires self-discipline and vigilance to maintain your digital footprint and audience.

WRITING the blog is the first step of engaging the students to truly “see” each other.  The second step is for students to actively READ each others’ blogs and to discuss what they appreciate about each others work.  The third expectation is that students offer feedback by COMMENTING on at least two blogs, ensuring all students in the class receive regular feedback.  The criteria for commenting has been established in this previous blog titled Etiquettes with Blogging.

Our goal this year is to expand our readership from within the classroom and school into the great wide yonder.  We’ll be establishing connections with schools around the world, starting with Dr. Forman’s senior English class at The Buckley School in Sherman Oaks, California.

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References

Blogging Basics 101,. ‘What Is The Difference Between Blog Categories And Blog Tags? – Blogging Basics 101’. N.p., 2010. Web. 13 Sept. 2015.

Hunniblog302015.edublogs.org,. ‘The HUNNI Blog 30-1 – 2015 | Communication Trust Respect Courtesy Integrity Scholarship Self-Discipline’. N.p., 2015. Web. 13 Sept. 2015.

Hunnisett, Pamela. ‘This I Believe: Blogging Transforms The English Classroom’. thehunni 2015. Web. 13 Sept. 2015.

Learnnc.org,. ‘Organization – The Five Features Of Effective Writing’. N.p., 2015. Web. 13 Sept. 2015.

Saidsimple.com,. ‘When To Make A New Paragraph’. N.p., 2015. Web. 13 Sept. 2015.

LOVE. LAUGH. LEARN. xoxox Hunni

The Graduation Toast to the Class of 2015

Greetings and gratitude to all here tonight, but most especially you – the students, the graduating class of 2015. I humbly thank you for this honour.

Sitting in the ceremony this morning was a moment of great pride and inspiration for all of us. You have been a collective, a unified community like no other Grade 12 group that I’ve witnessed, and you worked so hard to help each other succeed. You can look around at each other here and be grateful to be together.

I began this school year very nervous because for the first time, in many years, I really didn’t know many of the 12s – other than my drama babies who I hoped would protect me – and now I was sentenced to 5 of my 6 courses with YOU. You who were kind of intimidating, and you kind of had a bit of a butt-head reputation. Being the collective you are – that was really scary!

Of course, it took no time at all in the first semester with 30-2 and Creative Writing for you to show your true pirating natures – you plundered our time together, luring me with your giddy pessimism and your melodramatic loving – all the while stealing my heart with your curmudgeonly charm (right Sean Clifford?). You knew this to be true of your paradoxical natures (Shaan – paradoxical – you know what that means, right? – he asked me on his way into the diploma exam). So this paradox was known by you for you said it yourself in your writing – if I had any hope of survival against his imprisonment with you, it was lost when you began to bear your souls in your writing. I would spend countless evenings and early mornings with swollen tearful eyes from the beauty your words invoked. Your life philosophies, 6 word stories, river writing, spoken word poetry, the This I Believe, and the Never Shall I Forgets.

Soon enough, your wisdom, your creativity, and your heart flood all around me – embroiling me in your undertow.

Alas that first semester came to a close and we survived our time together – both feeling richer and grateful for our entrapment on those tumultuous seas. You were certainly pirates and you made me feel like your pirate queen!

Alas, the trumpet call for battle resounded again as you 2^nd semester troops mustered your tenacity and shenanigans on my barely recovered heart. The rallying cry of 30-1 descended upon us and together – arm in arm – we faced the enemy – the dreaded diploma exam. Face it we did, through laughter, tears, dreams, nightmares, exhaustion and delight. Never shall I forget this. Never shall I forget you.

In 18 years of teaching I have loved more than 2000 students who have crossed the stages of graduation – but never have I met a group who truly felt so united in your blood, sweat, and tears – (especially in afterschool diploma preps in 30degree heat).  In such a short time together, you have burrowed your spirits into mine, and have forever affected me as not only a teacher, but especially as a person, and in the future -hopefully – as your friend.

I need to acknowledge the inspirational speeches from today’s ceremony and to pre-empt the rest my own speech by letting you know that I wrote mine before today – but Michael Beals’ valedictorian address has many parallels to my own – Michael, we have kindred souls. Many of you whose yearbooks I signed will note that I wrote: LOVE, LAUGH, LEARN. This is the motto of my life – it is the measuring tool I use to determine my own success and it is the magical torch that I pass onto you. But my words only shadow next to your own. As Michael also noted today – I’m infamous for the drudging pain of the blogs that I drill upon you, but thanks to the blogs I have your own wisdom to offer back to you. So as your fairy godmother – and with Michael as your other fairy godmother – the three wishes we bless upon you are love, laughter, and learning.

The primary value I hold is LOVE! I believe that that love is the central axis of all success. Find the best in each person you encounter, love the best in each person, and you will find success with them and for them. I believe that this is the passionate value that makes all of us at FFCA so special – as parents, staff, and students. Regarding love:

• Jasmine K. wrote: “This taught me a lot about selflessness and how sometimes the right decision isn’t always the one that keeps you safe but rather the one that makes everyone around you safe.”

• Rachel boasted: “ Loving loudly is being honest with yourself, the connections you have with your own feelings, and the openness to share them with others.”

• Cameron realized, “There are many things that can be taken away from the One Act experience, but most of all … gratitude. This simple feeling is one of the most powerful, mood changing emotions I have witnessed by this point in my life.

• Christy cried, “I am sad to leave this wonderful place where I have grown into someone that I am happy to be.”

• RYAN exclaimed, “I would like to dedicate this to the amazing teachers of FFCA! … I feel the need to recognize the work they do for us students. All they want is the best from us and their dedication to us is not a job, but a passion which inspires that characteristic in us too.”

The secondary value I hold dear is the purity of LAUGHTER. We, as teachers, would never survive this work without the grace of laughter, and you certainly provide us plenty of opportunities to laugh. But due to our love – we usually laugh with you, and yes – on occasion – at you.   Laughter offers us joy and happiness, but more importantly, laughter eases the struggles in life. Together – as a staff and with students – we have laughed through our tears.

• Jashanjot reminds us that “Everyone always forgets to include happy on the list of what they want to be. There’s a nonsensical idea that happiness stems from conforming to a status quo, but look at the happiest, most joyful individuals around you. The ones you see bursting with giggles and charm. They know how to take a joke and make one, they decided to not grow up the same way.”

• Madison affirms, “I believe that being happy is much more than contentment. Being happy is making sacrifices, being happy is working hard, being happy is fixing your problems and coming to solutions on your own terms, evolving as a person and continuing to grow. Happiness is not a state of mind, it is a state of existence.”

• Jamie asserts “- Life is a beautiful thing and rather than worrying about the dumb things and forgetting about all the great things, you may as well just enjoy it for what it is and be a happier person.”

• Georgia – our beloved violist today – beautifully articulates, “Laughter doesn’t set limitations. Laughter creates opportunities. Laughter defeats evil. Laughter conquers.”

The final value that I hold sacred to success is LEARNING. Learning involves both risk and hard work, daily. Learning is to live with the humility in knowing that you need to spend each day –from birth to death – learning something new to make yourself a little bit better than you were the day before; to be willing to change, for the better. To have the humility to face your ignorance and prejudices, to embrace the learning that can help light your way.

• Manpreet wept – “I feel that in order to truly learn from a mistake and to show the world that a change has been made, one must be given a second chance to do so.”

• Shaan professed, “We are the root of all our problems and yet we blame others for our misfortunes. … conflicts can be resolved if we simply are willing to make change within ourselves…”

• Ivdeep preached, “Chase your dreams now; try until you literally can’t anymore because nothings hurts more than those sleepless nights wondering what if or why….”

• Daman G consoled, “Despite what we are made to believe, failing isn’t always a bad thing. Sometimes we fail when working towards our dreams, but as my dad always says, “things always happen for a reason.” There must be a different path you were meant to take, and different things you were meant to accomplish.”

• TOPE advocated, “If you want to see yourself somewhere, it is not enough to dream; action is what makes a dream a reality and that requires work, perseverance and patience.”

• ELAINE inspirited, “What I do believe in is living life with a childlike curiosity and desire. I believe in finding inspiration wherever I go … I believe in my ability to be more.”

As you all can see from these words – the words of our graduates that are pared down from 120 potential choices that I garnered while rereading ALL your blogs – we have so much wisdom leaving our walls and just as your words represent a legacy of you on my blogs, your impact will reverberate through our halls and hearts forever.

My experience with you has been special because by the time you got to me you were already whipped into shaped by all the other teachers; you were ready to show who you really are and began to forge who you really want to be. I was blessed with the best of you – most of the time.

I am grateful for the number of you who credit the teachers of FFCA with gratitude for your success, but the real success is that when you step through that door tonight you are officially free – did you hear that Karan – FREE!  But when you do leave us tonight, be that best version of yourself – the one who we know and who we love.

I cannot let you go without one more poem from the poet Ralph Waldo Emerson and it is titled “SUCCESS”

To laugh often and love much;
To win the respect of intelligent persons
And the affection of children;
To earn the approbation of honest critics
And to endure the betrayal of false friends;
To appreciate beauty;
To find the best in others;
To give of one’s self;
To leave the world a little better,
Whether by a healthy child,
A garden patch
Or a redeemed social condition;
To have played and laughed with enthusiasm

And sung with exultation;
To know that even one life has breathed easier
Because you have lived –
This is to have succeeded.

To conclude: As I reminded you before your exams – and this one is especially for Lauren who seemed to be really affected by this advice: “don’t worry about tomorrow – you got this!”

Much love and gratitude – thank you!

This I Believe: Blogging Transforms the English Classroom

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About a half-dozen years ago, as an English teacher – a lover of reading and writing, my heart was breaking as my students seemed to be floating further away from my love of books and the craft of writing; I was getting older and feeling irrelevant in the world of my students – an annoying necessity of a class. Yet, I also am a theatre teacher and noticed that with a stage and lights, my students would work hard to perform when starring on the stage and being acknowledged with accolades of applause – an inspiring option for a class.

Blogging revealed itself to me as the quiet stage and lights for the high school English classroom. Students had been building online, virtual lives at home with daily hours dedicated to their online identities – a world where they were reading and writing. I needed to learn how I could create that world for the students in the English classroom. By immersing my PGP (Professional Growth Plan) in 21^st Century digital literacies, and by practicing what I preach by blogging myself beside my students, my classrooms have transformed into rehearsal spaces of reading and writing, preparing for our performances on our blogging stage. Blogging inspires kids to offer their best efforts as writers, but it also inspires students to be peer tutors offering great leadership and character, as we expect from our FFCA students:

Vision of an FFCA Graduate With intentional thought given to the design of the learning experience at FFCA, graduates will leave us with core knowledge competencies, skills and abilities that are both essential and timeless. As creators of knowledge, students will have achieved the ability to think critically, care deeply and act ethically so that they can contribute to creating a world that cares and nurtures the diversity of cultures, celebrates personal contributions, and inspires others to reach their true potential. Proficient in their technological communications, FFCA leaders will be able to work independently or interdependently in a globalized society where partnerships and relationships strengthen the capacity to solve problems in collaborative ways. Possessing the attributes of life-long learners, graduates will be reflective and self-aware as they continue to evolve as successful individuals guided by moral purpose.

Our kids constantly humble, impress, and surprise me with their incredible writing and thinking. I love reading the students’ blog writing, as you can experience by reading some of our Grade 12 This I Believe blogs that are linked in this Storify:

https://storify.com/PamelaHunnisett/this-i-believe-blogs

However, what I love even more is the comments the students write to each other after the blogs, offering applause and critical feedback for improvement. Students are connecting with each other, they are building caring communities, they are reading as fans and critics of each other. The comments they craft for each other are thoughtful, relevant, and constructive; furthermore, the most surprising benefit is that “blogging with commenting” has developed a trusting, compassionate, and respectful community – virtually – that transfers into the classroom itself.

Blogging has allowed our walls to literally and figuratively disappear as the students work together to inspire, encourage, and validate each other. Blogging is our stage that features the embodiment of our vision for our FFCA Graduates.  Our classroom – both during our 90 minutes and in our virtual world – is an inspiring, highly relevant, necessity of a class.

Here are examples of student feedback:

Dear Jaiveen,

Wow! This piece stood out to me because I too wrote about TIME and once I read the title I knew I had to read it to see a different perspective on this topic. I really enjoyed the first line due to the nature of its contest because as a child time does not mean anything but as you grow old it means the world. By the first line it immediately made me read the whole blog.

Something I saw that you could improve is giving the audience more of what time has impacted your life. I felt like you gave a glimpse of the big picture by just giving a bit more detail and more personal connections to time would have made it way better and made it a bit more extended piece.

Overall I really enjoyed reading this post due to the topic and your personal opinion because got to see another perspective to the same topic. Hope to read more posts from you.

Sincerely,
Karamvir

Dear Rachel,

I think the overall message you’re sending out in this blog is immensely important for everyone in today’s society. You’ve done an amazing job at explaining the difference between loving oneself and not becoming arrogant. I think the fact that you encouraged more independence of people is great as too many people these days are depending on others to get somewhere in life.

The only thing I would liked to have seen more of in your blog are personal connections to your own life as I feel that would have made me even more engaged.

All in all, I think this was an excellent piece that everyone should get a chance to read as this could definitely help a lot of people in becoming more independent and less self conscious. Just add a bit of personal experiences in your writing and I think you’re set.

Sincerely, Shaan

Dear Daman,

I really connected with what you wrote in the fifth and sixth paragraphs about how you analyze the behaviours of those around you and then choose how to act accordingly. It makes me wonder about how I affect those around me who, whether it be through timidness or their lack of a loud enough voice, manage to escape my attention. It makes me wonder if I’m giving the right impression. Am I the one you, or others, characterize as a jerk? Am I one to be avoided and my behaviour a model of how not to act? Or am I seen as a genuinely good person?

Either way, this piece has made me realize that I need to put forth a conscious effort to analyze my actions and behaviour. I never know who might be watching an silently taking mental notes of my character; I want to make sure that I leave a good impression on everyone.

For improvements, I think those fifth and sixth paragraphs, even though they were so well written, do go on a bit of a tangent. From my perspective, I didn’t really see how someone’s behaviour affects people’s choices so much. Someone’s behaviour does give the choice of wanting to model, or avoid a behaviour like that. However, when you said, “It’s difficult to not be affected by all the people trying to change who you are, what you believe in, and the choices you make.” I felt as though you had a deeper connection to the point you were trying to convey through the fifth and sixth paragraphs. Making this connection to the reader would really tie your post together and make your post appear much more meaningful and organized.

Good luck with your writings in the future. I look forward to reading more posts like this.

Sincerely,
Chad

Dear Noor,

Noor that was amazing! Reading this I felt a connection to you as I myself also find more happiness in simple things. I also feel that the little things, the things we wouldn’t really think about meaning the simple things are much more rewarding. I really liked the way your blog just flowed. The transitions and the way you organized your paragraphs really helped me stay engaged and helped my understanding. At no time did I feel confused. Your explanations and evidence was of perfect amount.

To improve, I also agree with Yashii and Sukhjot. Although you maintained perfect flow, sometimes your sentences were really long. An example would be your last paragraph. I understand that the ideas presented in that sentence are vey connected however splitting it up into two sentences would help to get your message across more efficiently.

I would like to end off by saying that I can see this believe in you. You seem to be very humble and appreciative and after reading your blog I respect you even more.

Sincerely, Aman

Dear Jas,
I believe you have a lot of good ideas and that you have the ability to make this great piece about the potential of humanity. I liked how you discussed both the good and the evil of human potential. Keep on giving it your all and don’t get discouraged. I enjoyed your writing and images.
My criticism is about the sentence structures you used for your piece. Most of your sentences were simple sentences which can feel choppy and disjointed to the reader. I would advise keeping the hand-out that Ms. Hunnisett gave on sentence structures beside you as you write to help make your piece flow. Challenge yourself to write with most of the sentence types in every piece of writing; once you are comfortable use them to create an effect on the reader. I have to do it as well. As an added comment unify your ideas; do not contradict yourself. In the first line you say “I believe in the potential of humanity, and that the key to unlocking that potential is the unknown.” And at the end you say “I believe that if we are to unlock own true potential we must strive to put aside our differences.” These ideas do not agree with each other. I believe that you can make this a great piece.
What would you recommend each person do to help the human potential?
Sincerely,
Matt

Reflections with my Grade 10 students

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In May when I received my classes for the 2014-2015 school year, my heart sunk a little because I was assigned a Grade 10 ELA class and I had been spoiled with Grade 12’s and 11’s for the past few years.

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It had been a couple of years since I had Grade 10s, and as I recalled, they were challenging.  My 17 years of teaching had taught me that Grade 10s were often irreverent, lazy, and more concerned with their social game-playing than learning.

Yet, being the emotional creature that I am, I have always connected well with these woebegone, ruckus-rising creatures that emerge in the classes of Grade 10.  So, I pulled up my big girl pants and prepared for the roller-coaster of Grade 10s.

Alas, these 10’s have become the most beautiful class as a collective that I’ve ever taught in all my 17 years.  I always fall in love with my students and my classes, but this group was the heart of teaching for me.  It was like playing with puppies, everyday: I’d hold the stick of learning and their eager tails would wag and they’d bark in delight with every task and skill we’d learn.  Yes, they were easily excitable, but always respectful to me, to the learning, to the environment, to each other, and to themselves.  They were a beautiful class that brought out the excellence in learning for all of us.  They created the world of Ubuntu that I’ve so sought to build in my classes.

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On days when they were away on field trip and my day would gain a prep, I would miss their energy.  Each student – just like all students I have the privilege to love and teach – is extremely special, but what made them unforgettable and life transformative for me was who they were as we came together.  We became a family.  It doesn’t seem right that our semester came to a close and that our family doesn’t get to come together daily.

I miss them dearly.  But I treasure the love they continue to sprinkle through our halls and I feel honoured for their continued visits and hugs.   They embody my motto of LAUGH, LOVE, LEARN and I will hold the hope that fate will bring us all together again in the next two years of their journey.

Recreating this world – this Ubuntu – is a practice that I hope to explore, start anew, and resurrect with my Grade 12 students this coming semester.  Having 3 groups of ELA 30-1 Diploma courses is a challenge, but I feel the ties of Ubuntu beginning to knit us together.  May our journey this semester be as magical as the journey I had with the 10s.

The following quotes I gathered from their final blog posts about being a reader, writer, and learner: http://hunniblog10.edublogs.org/

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“…my journey as a learner, reader, and writer this year has particularly allowed me to understand the importance of consistency and hard work. … Through this growth, I have also realized my passion for learning, reading, and writing through which I am able to grow in knowledge and wisdom about myself and the world around me.” Carolin – Grade 10

“Ms. Hunnisett has helped me find my voice when it comes to writing, and taught me the importance of reading, … She’s taught me that even the simplest pieces have deeper meaning and many stories of their own to tell. Words can’t describe how much she has changed my way of thinking, because of her my perception of life has become so much more positive…” – Roshni – Grade 10

“The first day of L.A, I had no idea who was in my class and I was forced to choose a spot to sit. Thankfully, as the week progressed, three amazing individuals that I had the privilege to be friends with, showed up and we were all able to create a dynamic group of fun. Sitting in my group of four for the very last time was definitely a difficult thing to do but when I observed the faces of the three people around me, I realized that without them I definitely would not have progressed as an individual and I would still be a very reserved student. As we slowly began to grow in that classroom, it became terrifying, but knowing that you would always have a shoulder to lean on if it got too overwhelming, really softened the blow of growing up. Hand in hand, we got to face these challenges together and I am very thankful for that.” Sidra – Grade 10

“Being part of our amazing class has really pushed me to strive to achieve for more and help those around me. … Looking back over this semester, I wish that it had lasted longer, so that we could all stay together, but unfortunately it has come to an end. … we have all learnt something and improved both our reading and learning habits in one way or another. I will always remember the fun ‘adventures’ we had in our class.” – Madhav – Grade 10

“Within these blogs a community of writers was created, a community who supported and built off of one another’s passion. Within the hour and a half classes we made a community of learning and knowledge, but as well created memories. Within the teachings of Ms. Hunnisett, we created a class into a family. I believe that each and every individual was a piece of our classes identity, if we took away anyone we wouldn’t be the class we are today.” – Alisha – Grade 10

“…keeping a journal that we wrote in the beginning of the class was something that largely assisted in my growth, sparking certain ideas or concepts that I did use afterward in the semester. Writing blogs was another thing that at first seemed unnecessary, however I slowly came to realize how they were indeed inspiring me and helping me to improve my writing.” Ishmeet – Grade 10

“I sincerely hope to grow as a learner, reader and writer through the years that follow, but above all I yearn the desire of having Mrs. Hunnisett as a teacher again. I have profoundly learned this year from writing essays to performing plays; boosting my inner esteem and allowing me to paint that picture that lay beyond the window. Obviously, that painting will become more vibrant in the years to come, but for that I must read more and write more to escape my inner emotions so I can paint that picture in a poetic manner.” – Mah Noor – Grade 10

“As a reader, this year I feel that I have definitely improved a lot. As of this year, I have read approximately six to seven books in the few months of this course. Therefore, I read approximately one book a month. I feel that this is evidently better than what I have read last year, when I barely spared enough time for myself to read. This year, I was also able to learn that it is very important for a person to continue reading so that they can always have a chance to improve their writing. The more a person reads, the better their writing gets.” – Suchismita – Grade 10

“I’ve always been a fairly opinionated person, wanting to have people listen to what I have to say and actually understand and pay attention, something that can be hard as a teenager. When writing, now I can see that it’s a good way to do just that. The blogging has influenced that significantly as well … It allowed me to try something new and it acted as a good outlet for me to write how I desired to with a clear purpose of simply expressing my feelings on certain subjects. … I feel as though I’ve matured as a writer and even though I still don’t necessarily like doing it because of the hassle, I most certainly have grown to appreciate the art of writing.” – Paula – Grade 10

“One of the most important things that I’ve achieved from this class is wanting to read. I hated reading. but last year when I read Of Mice and MenI thought of reading more, but throughout the year I never actually got to find another book that I enjoyed. To Kill a Mockingbird is one of my favorite novels and that was my ” Aha” for wanting to read more which is a goal for 2015 for me.”  Gavin – Grade 10

“By the end of this semester not only did I gain confidence in my writing skills but I gained reassurance knowing that my voice was finally being heard, recognized, appreciated and related to. …coming to grade ten where reading was expected was a shock, but one that I welcomed as a challenge. …As a learner so far this year I have gained more self-confidence that success is possible for me and that I can contribute to the learning community because my opinion is valued and realistic.” Cayleigh – Grade 10

“I love writing personal, and I love reading personal pieces. You see a whole new side of that person that you didn’t see before, and maybe you can even connect with them because of that experience. Writing personal pieces can be hard because you’re showing vulnerability to an extent, and I guess that’s why I admire personal writing so much because you see that rawness in another person and I appreciate when someone shows vulnerability or rawness. … I knew this classroom would be a place of happiness, love and care. I grew closer to people who I thought I wouldn’t even have a relationship with, and I’ve created many new friendships because of this class. ” Daania – Grade 10

“I have never felt so proud of myself while doing a specific course.  I have learned so much in this short time about poems , short stories, and so much more. I have learned about how people can transform a catastrophe into something so beautiful in words.” Asna – Grade 10

 

A Hunni By Any Other Name Would Not Be So Sweet

“What’s in a name? that which we call a rose

By any other name would smell as sweet;”

(Juliet, II.ii, Romeo and Juliet)

Counter to our dear Juliet’s philosophies, I argue that I would not be as sweet if I were to be called something other than Pamela Hunnisett. Our name is the first mark of our identity, the mark of our existence for a brief span of space and time whilst on this earth. I believe there is a metaphysical alchemy of fate when naming a person, and it is fascinating to consider the importance of how the symbolic meaning of one’s name can become inextricably intertwined with one’s identity.

To say that my mother toiled and sweated over the rhythms, rhymes, diminutives, and symbolism of my naming would be a fallacy! But something in the stars on that quiet night of May 7, 1971 whispered to my mother my name, Pamela. A name that by Northern Ontario standards was “unique”. The sound of my name attracted my mother, and that eve when my parents bestowed it on me, she set into motion the fates of my existence.

In an age where many Canadian girls were called Jennifer, Lisa, Tracy, Vicky, Tammy, and Susan – Pamela was archaically British and profound with unbecoming airs. So, as a child, I carried the name Pamela as a burden of being different, a bit of an outcast.   Most called me Pam, some Pammy, as is the fashion in Canada, and these shorter forms increased my popularity and suitability among my peers. However, privately, I have always preferred Pamela – as does my mother. Preferring the uncool has been the story of my existence. I have the means (as in using the name Pam) to have one foot with the “inner” crowd, but I always prefer to be just outside the inner ring, looking in as an observer. My heart remains in the preferred solitude with Pamela. 

Yet, the symbolic meaning of my name has carved its-self into my personality blessing me with a sweetness of nature that draws people to me for kind, loving friendship and counsel. Unknown to my mother at the time of my birth, my name is said to mean “sweet as honey” or “all honey”.   It is a name that is a poetic invention by a poet Sir Philip Sidney in the 16^th Century, for his heroine in the book Arcadia; he created the name to symbolically represent the character’s sweetness of nature, so he took the Greek words pan (meaning “all”) and meli (meaning “honey”). Come the 18th Century Samuel Richardson published a novel titled Pamela, or Virtue Rewarded.  Therefore, although I might be inclined towards solitude, I get on well with people as I’m generally amicable and considered to be a sweet, reliable, and loving friend – as are my literary namesakes.

Although my mother did not know the meaning of Pamela, nor the literary history of Pamela, she did know the meanings of my middle names: Jane, which means “a gift from God” combined with Marie that carries the grief of meaning “bitter”, as in Jane-Marie; I came into the world bitterly as a gift from god. Perhaps that is the truth behind the reality of being an “oops” baby when my parents were young newlyweds and unprepared to yet have a child. Those secondary names were given to me in homage to my great-grandmother Jane (my father’s grandmother), and my dear Grandma Kelly’s name Marie (my mother’s mom). In true sweetness, my mother named me to make both sides of the family happy. And by giving me those names, it fated my relationship to my dear Grandma Kelly who loved and adored me as her namesake, and nurtured so much of my nature and love for literature. However, it was also the fortuitousness of fate that predominated those designs with Pamela – “sweet as honey”! Thus, my name is blessed in paradox – much like my personality and life. 

Again, in the naming of names, my life is filled with irony when also considering my last name – Hunnisett – yes, that is right – as in HONEY-SETT! Silly in so many ways to be “Sweet as Honey” Hunnisett. This makes me laugh, and I love the ridiculous in life, so I love that my name is hilarious! But that also owes a responsibility to be that kind of person who deserves such a name. When I first read Roald Dahl’s Matilda when babysitting I thought that Miss Honey was the sweetest teacher ever! What a lot of responsibility I realized that my name carried! I did have aspirations to teach, so I took on the characterization of Miss Honey with great seriousness; I too would love kids and save them! Soon enough as I began teaching teenagers in 1998, they quickly called me Ms. Hunni! I cherish that identity, of being that kind of entity for my students throughout the years.

When it came time to marry a handsome Latin Argentinian with the lovely last name Rios, I had no intention of rebranding myself, nor did he have any expectations that I should. Now, don’t get me wrong, Pamela Rios has a sophisticated sexiness to it – a name one should aspire to have! But it is not who I am! Such a name would just not be as sweet, sexy – yes, but not so sweet!

So, it is and so it remains that my name is Pamela (sweet as honey) Jane-Marie (gift of god, bitterness) Hunnisett (a British surname). Let’s just say that the Urban Dictionary says that “hunni” means “a name you call your good friend”.

Who I am is completely rapt within the denotations and connotations of all my names – whether that is by my fate or by my design, I do not really know. But I do believe that if I had any other names I would not be nearly so sweet!

Setting the Stage for Leadership

Everything I am as a teacher, and all that I value as a school leader has been cultivated from my 27 years of experience in the theatre, and these values have navigated my success in my English classroom and school community for many years.   The secret ingredient to my success, that theatre has honed in me, is the intuitive skill of foresight!  Theatrical productions are successful when they are well designed, directed, and rehearsed, and that all foreseeable challenges, pitfalls, and problems are prepared for, so that in the end the show goes on and succeeds, forsaking all setbacks and managing any failures.

Essentially, to be an effective transformational leader in a school requires the same 4C (foresee) priorities that I learned from the theatre world:

4C =  Community, Commitment, Communication, and Command  

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My 4C philosophy was recently reflected in this article in The Globe and Mail: “Liberal arts is the future of work, so why is Canada pushing ‘job-ready’ skills?” (May 12, 2014). This articles argues for the value of a liberal arts education to create today and tomorrow’s leaders by cultivating the same skills of transformational leadership that I garnered from my theatre arts training and experience:

people who can communicate effectively and persuasively, people who can collaborate across departments to solve problems, people with emotional intelligence who can transcend age and cultural differences and who possess the resilience to embrace failure as a learning experience.

This quotation completely resonates for me because these are my daily actions that lead my success and continual growth as a teacher, a colleague, a coordinator, and a team leader and supporter of our phenomenally successful performing arts program, and these are the same values and skills that I seek to inspire in my students and my colleagues through transformational leadership. Here I’ll explain how this transformational leadership is embodied in the 4C for school leadership – Community, Commitment, Communication, and Command:

COMMUNITY:

In transformational leadership, first I seek to build unity within the community – Ubuntu if you will:

“Ubuntu means people are people through other people… [it] acknowledges both the right and the responsibilities of every citizen in promoting individual and societal well-being.” (Nelson Mandela)

I purposefully work to build safe and caring Ubuntu groups that are fostered with each member of the community being recognized as a valued voice.  Communities are built on trust, and trust exists when people feel truly validated and heard.  A leader must listen to and honour their community – communication is integral to trust building and existing.

 

I begin this in the classroom by having students begin the year with a values based project that is shared and celebrated in the class: favourite quotes, credos, stories, life philosophies, and “this I believe” essays.  Getting inside the hearts and minds of the community members is the key to building this unity.

I continue to foster “community building”  with two measures of community accountability: “How are you making your learning visible?” and “How are you contributing to the learning of other?” (ETMOOC)  I have really explored this in my classroom in my blog from March titled Community and Culture in my Classroom.

Communities need to honour every member, but leadership also requires one to see those members who are community transfomers – leaders who others look up to.  It’s important to balance equity among staff member, yet to also recognize those who intrinsically work beyond the status quo.  Your leaders should have trust and voices as their input ultimately affects the whole

Coming together for sharing and storytelling is transformational in synthesizing a group.  For example, years ago when there was great divisiveness among the women on staff, I re-introduced Girls Night, a monthly event when the women came together.  This had existed when I first came to the high school staff, and I was awed by the tight-knit nature of this group of women, but as our school grew in size and number, this event had fallen to the wayside.  By re-introducing the monthly event, and by asking the women to each take on a month that they would organize – so all the work was not falling to one person’s shoulders – we changed the attitudes, behaviours, and communications of the women.  Sitting together to laugh and share helped us to appreciate each other in a different light and this helped to unify us.  This tradition continues, although our busy lives have limited our opportunities.  In reflection, this is something I need to get back to as a priority.

In working as a community leader I let my heart lead the way.  I am blessed with an abundance of emotional intelligence and I draw upon this deep well to galvanize a team to meet goals and create visions while building motivation and trust, not just with me, but moreover with each other.  I work hard to be present with people and to care about them, their lives, and their interests.  By modelling this value, many others do likewise.  A caring community builds a family and family takes care of each other.  I cannot take care of each and every person, so in transformational leadership I empower the team with confidence to be the interconnected network for support for each other.

COMMUNICATION:

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The second priority in a transformational leader is to focus on communication as a key value in a school, and one that is necessary to build and support the community.  My communication skills have developed through the balancing of both my introspective nature and my interpersonal skills.  I deeply care about people, so I consider that communication is my essential tool to motivate and support people. Fortunately, my English and Theatre Arts expertise, my critical thinking skills, and my  emotional intelligence offers me a wealth of practice and experience in honing this precious tool, as a listener, as a speaker, as a reader, and as a writer.

When communicating with people I work hard to focus on listening and being non-judgmental.  I need to understand  perspectives and concerns so that I can measure how to appropriately offer response and support.  There are many times that I have dealt with students, parents, or staff who are frustrated or angry about a situation.  First I need to let them talk, while I listen.  They need to know that I want to help them, to help them embrace resilience and learn from the challenge they are facing.  They need and deserve to be heard.  As a parent and a compassionate person, it helps give me patience and perspective in these conversations.  Then, I  offer my honesty and candour to help them understand and to help support them.  I believe in focusing on solutions, so I use communication as a tool for refocusing obstacles into opportunities, and once a vision or plan is in place, follow-up communication and accountability is key to creating positive transformation.

Communication is the heart of all we do in education.  So it is imperative that we bring our strong communication skills to the job, daily, for grand encounters such as presenting or managing crucial conversations in meetings, but especially in the small tokens of conversation, daily.   To share a kind word, validation,  feedback, and even a sincere “hello” is so important to building and maintaining relationships of trust and maintaining motivation in hard times.

COMMITMENT:

I have a boundless pool of intrinsic motivation when I’m passionate about something, and I’m passionate about education, people, and in making lives better for all.  The flame burns bright in me, and I endeavour to inspire and cultivate the flame in my colleagues and my students.  But passion and inspiration result in nothing without commitment.  So, I could say that I’m passionately committed to not only offering the best of myself, my skills, and my knowledge, but I’m also passionately committed to exploring the unknown as we sit on the cusp of the 21st Century education.

On a microcosm level, I am highly committed to kids!  Individually, I look for the best in each of my students and help them shine and build their confidence – every kid counts for me.  For a class, I offer the best of designed instruction that I can to meet the needs of my students on a daily basis – both inside and outside the four walls of the classroom.  I strive to have a highly engaged classroom that is buzzing with learning; kids desire to be in my class and that is a result of my passion.  I also work hard to constantly improve my strategies for feedback and connectivity with students to help them be the best person and learner that they can be.  Although my expectations are high for myself and my students, I don’t seek compliance of commitment; rather, I seek to embed the value and motivation for commitment, and I do this through modelling it.

On a macrocosm level, I continually strive for greater perspective, awareness, experience, and knowledge to lead the charge with initiatives for Inspiring Education and Curriculum Redesign not just in the English classroom, or our theatrical productions, but for the school and organization as a whole.  For many years now I have researched and practiced innovations in teaching practices to motivate student learning and organizational growth towards 21st Century capacities.  A whole world has opened up to me with the world of blogging and virtual PLN’S (professional learning networks), and I continue to be committed to lead our growth as an innovative and transformational educational organization. I am not afraid of these changes, in fact I embrace it, and I’m committed and poised to navigate through what is uncertain and unknown.

COMMAND:

This is a highly contentious word choice for leadership, I know.  But it is the right word to describe a key priority for a leader of a school filled with leaders; in the end, I can lead those leaders and be decisive.  It is the right word for me, someone who is known as “Ms. Hunni” and all the sweetness in connotation with my name and my personality, because I can be a commanding and authoritative presence, when necessary.

My experience with proven commitment, communication, and community-building skills all contribute to my success and the respect that I have earned to be seen as a “commanding presence” in both the classroom and the the school.  It is true that in my idealized world we could all work in harmony and collaboration, filled with intrinsic motivation- where we can all hold the conch and take our turn in harmony. I firmly believe in the power of collaboration, consensus, and consultation. This unity from the community is essential in the school, but so too is the ability to make the hard decisions, to have the crucial conversations, to take the laboured actions, and to even make unpopular decisions, when necessary.  It is essential to be able to manage the multitude of foreseeable and unforeseeable issues that challenge leadership on a daily basis, and the word “command” speaks to the duty and responsibility that comes with the role.

In the  role of school leadership, we must be the role models and the risk takers for our mission and our vision for FFCA, and I know that I embody these virtues with my intuitive foresight as supported by my priorities of COMMUNITY, COMMUNICATION, COMMITMENT, and COMMAND.

 

Globe and Mail Article – May 12, 2014 – http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/education/education-lab/as-canada-pushes-job-ready-skills-the-rest-of-the-world-embraces-liberal-arts/article18492798/ ETMOOC = Educational Technology Massive Open Online Course – http://etmooc.org/ Transformational Leadership – http://www.eoq.org/fileadmin/user_upload/Documents/Congress_proceedings/Turkey_2005/Proceedings/048_Stephen_Hacker.pdf