Monthly Archives: June 2017

AP Grade 12 Ted Talks

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As our year winds to a close, our Grade 12’s share their wisdom and experience with our AP kids and friends via a Ted Talks style 5-15 minute speech.  The students’ truth and wisdom brought us all to tears for well over two hours.  Here are the highlights as shared with us by Jade’s great note-taking.

Highlights from grade twelve Ted Talks: 

Claire, on “Why I am Funny” 

  • -“If I’m funny, they’ll have to keep me around, right?” 
  • -insightfully describes humour as a source of validation, inspiration and perhaps even a coping mechanism 
  • -a wonderful speech about finding and establishing a sense of belonging and a safe, comfortable space 
  • -exploration of the idea that funny=likability=happiness 
  • -relatable–we are all looking for validation, for something to cling to, how we have a tendency to compare ourselves to other when we don’t feel like we are good enough 
  • -a funny, heartwarming story about finding and knowing our own worth–reaching our full potentials–how sometimes it’s a matter of patience 
  • -surrounding ourselves with humble, caring people who advocate for our success 
  • -taking chances, trying new things in order to find a place where we are passionate, where we feel safe, and where we feel like we belong 

 

Emily on “Dear Someone, from a child of divorce” 

  • -we all love people differently 
  • -spoken word style–LOVE 
  • -“matrimony, like bones and roses and poetry is fragile” 
  • -“it breaks the bonds, love and lovers” 
  • -fear of loving, of giving others too much of ourselves, fear of sacrificing dreams and hopes in the name of love 
  • -“I will likely take more than I can give” 
  • -“married, mothered, and monstrous” 
  • -“my hair, my sheets and clothes all smell like you” 
  • -how our upbringings predispose us to loving a certain way 
  • -how do we love selflessly without losing/destroying ourselves in the midst of doing so 
  • – dear, someone–word someone makes it applicable and relatable to anyone. 
  • -BRAVO! 

Harmehar on “the harm of minimizing your self-worth” 

  • -a universal suffering we have all experienced 
  • -why do we find confidence intimidating? 
  • -some of the most confident people have also felt the most insecure 
  • -who do we surround ourselves with?–we need to find people who love us unconditionally, those who are accepting of us, flaws and differences 
  • -don’t surround yourselves with people who are afraid to see you succeed!–cut them out of your life. 
  • -knowing what makes you happy and practicing those things; hobbies etc 
  • -sometimes where you feel you are supposed to be isn’t contributing to your own growth, development, and positive sense of self worth 
  • -self fulfilling prophecies 
  • -“realizing the potential that surrounds you”–never accept less than you deserve, do not short change yourself 
  • -we all deserve to feel good about ourselves 

Bryna on “finding your true path” 

  • -overriding convention of society 
  • -Tumblr and spiritual awakenings—LOVE it 
  • -from catholic to pagan 
  • to look up and realize my spirituality is Apollo and his mates shining down on me
  • -finding our own connections and passions–not letting others choose it for us 
  • -anti-conformity 
  • -“when one god comes in your life, more are sure to follow”  – each to teach us their lessons
  • -wonder, confidence, pride 
  • -“Apollo told me to never let go of my morals” 
  • -“Hermes is my closest companion” 

Sadia – the validation of one’s self

  • -the relationship you should value most is the one with yourself 
  • -the only validation that can satisfy you is the validation that comes from yourself 
  • -“if you make a mistake don’t lament…”–they aren’t meant to be a deterrent 
  • -“keep your humanity close to you.” 
  • -“don’t silence compassionate thoughts” 
  • -don’t let others decide your worth–only you, as an individual can do that 
  • -“our world is not without magic” 
  • -“become aware of the power and influence your mind is capable of” 

Timi on “imperfections and the pursuit of happiness” 

  • – beautiful, biographic story 
  • -we are all born with an inclination to love ourselves–with child-like wonder, something that often begins to deteriorates as we grow older 
  • – “body image became a must pay attention to” 
  • -“In a few months I went from being the most confident to the most self conscious” 
  • -“I looked for love in the wrong places” 
  • -our trials, imperfections and flaws are contributors to our strength and happiness 
  • – abuse
  • -“we all want to be somebody.” 
  • -embracing imperfections 
  • -“know the difference between and imperfection and a liability” 

Sania on “Islam is beautiful” 

  • – stereotypes vs reality 
  • – harm of stereotypes 
  • – peace, love, dignity, respect, a source of comfort in times of despair 
  • – my world of Islam was peace, beauty, and love
  • -“so remember me I will remember you” 
  • -“and he is with you wherever you are” 
  • -open, trusting, reliable community 
  • -“it felt like everyone is Saudi Arabia was one person”–unity 
  • -the fatal generalizations and incorrect assumptions made about Islam: comes from a place of fear, ignorance
  • -“every nation has seeds of corruption” 
  • -“fear reveals what we care about most” 
  • -“all the hardest, coldest people you meet were once as soft as water. And that is the tragedy of living” ~ Iain Thomas 
  • -“Islam is good” 

Sajan on “grade thirteen” 

  • -serendipity 
  • -the significance of second chances 
  • -self discovery 
  • -“I provided the spotlight for other people but I never gave it to myself” 
  • -it’s okay to ask for help when we don’t know how to help ourselves 
  • -heartache–muse, inspirational 
  • – finding home 
  • -“it’s never too late to get your *@!$ together” 
  • -the perils of sleep walking through life–find yourself instead 

Malika on “learning to let go while continuing to love on” 

  • -“I can’t leave you, my heart screams…but I have to” 
  • -“goodbyes remind us that we are human and that everything must come to an end” 
  • -“maybe the key to letting go is accepting the fact that forever doesn’t exist” 
  • -“love has no sense of time nor placement” 
  • -“love is a promise to never forget” 
  • -letting go doesn’t mean you stop loving 
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